Saturday, 21 May 2011

Thats Not Why I Love You.

Okay, first off, i haven't blogged in weeks. Thats because of stupid exams. But currently, im up at 3 am, with something on my mind which i cant keep locked in. I MUST let it out.
I MUST. Hahaha

So, before you read the rest, YOU MUST listen to this song first. You MUST. Im being way too persistent, right?

Okay, now, AFTER listening to this song and possibly paying attention to the lyrics, you will probably understand the point of this blog. Its ok if you still dont though.

Alright, now, Im going to be frank, being 17 years and 5 months old, my hormones are being very very annoying. They're getting out of control as we speak. Or as I write.

I dont know if I love her, but the whole cliche of loving someone because of their looks, appearance, smile, height, weight is stupid. At least thats what I think. Let me know if you think differently. But anyway, after listening to the song, and the lyrics, I can relate to it, and most probably loads of people can too. When you love or like someone, its not because of one particular trait. They may be beautiful, nice, have a great smile, have great gestures, may be cute, etc, but a person who truly likes someone else wouldn't LOVE another for the mentioned reasons. Love is something that builds up over time, a LONG period of time. All that you've been through, all that happened between the two, and how they experienced things together would lead to it. Being yourself around everyone is also a reason.

Personally, whoever Ive liked, it wasn't for their looks. It was because of the fact that they'd like the real me, they'd like me because of who I am. They find my funny, they find me attractive. Which makes me feel exactly like this:

:D happy Face

So yes, and not just that, it happens over the development of time. And yes, I know its hard to not appreciate someone and become obsessed because they're stunning, but beware, you are NOT in love. Crushes and love is VERY different.

Being kids, most people wouldn't understand. When I was 13, 14-ishh, I was pretty shallow too. I guess everyone does grow up at a certain point. The reason im blogging about this is that sadly, theres still people as old as me, and possibly older, who break hearts, play around with their partner, which is just depressing and upsetting. I personally have experience, and know people who've been through it.

SO PEOPLE. Hear me out. Whenever someone tells you they love you, dont believe them straight out. See how long you've known them. Dont be bamboozled by their appearance or flattered by their way of persuasion of how being with them would be so perfect. Think for a second, before you do anything. Dont be a mere fool, if he says he loves you in 3 days and you believe him, you, just like him, are not cool. Yes, I couldn't resist. Sorry. Hahaha, its 3 30 am. What can one expect. Well, hope you get the point of this.

Okay, take care people... Dream within a dream, HERE I COME.