Saturday, 25 June 2011

Not Good Enough? I Dont Think So

When was the last time someone told you you're not good enough? When was the last time someone said they didn't like you because you're just not likable?
If you haven't been told that yet, well, excellent, but when was the last time you thought to yourself that you weren't good enough? Everyone has probably thought so, at some point in their lives.
I know how it feels like. It makes you feel empty inside. It makes you feel worthless, useless, hopeless. It makes you feel dumb, alienated and tense. I've thought so too. Think to yourself though, was it worth it? Was simply presuming and concluding that you're not 'good enough' worth all the stress? Of course, the obvious answer is no. It wasn't.

You ARE good enough. You ARE likable. No matter who you are.

Everyone in this world is imperfect. Its a fact. So, if you're looking for perfection, stop, because thats a never ending quest. I may sound ridiculous when I say this, but NO ONE is simply 'Not good enough'. The term of just not being good enough should be shunned! Seriously. These thoughts flood people's hearts and heads and lead to useless depression and long-term desolation.

Everyone is 'good enough.' Everyone.

You know, I used to like Lady Gaga before, when she released her top singles like 'Just Dance' and 'Poker Face' etc. But I didn't like her since the 'Alejandro' phase. But now, after I heard 'Born This Way', well, it really put a huge smile on my face. We are ALL beautiful in our ways, because ofcourse, God can never make a mistake. So, so rightfully said.

Listen to it here:

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So my fellow bloggers, please please never consider yourself as 'Not good enough', because to me, all of you are more than good enough. Everybody has something unique about themselves, something different. And they're all imperfectly perfect in their own way.

I just felt like letting this out. As usual, I MUST leave you with a picture.

Clearly, we all can see this cat is good enough for about almost everything. However, it curses all those who call it otherwise.


Furva S. said...

ASIFFFFF. this is EXACTLY what i wanted to hear/read!
you is awesome! XD

Shrutilaya said...

Born this way made me grin like an idiot for three days running :D

Red Handed said...

A very self enhancing post. My very first read in the morning and i am really happy.

Though i hate Lady Gaga and BORN THIS WAY because she came for Grammies in an egg and it made me think she was born as a chicken. Considering her you never knw :p

but thts just my opinion u knw

great read!

AZ said...

This is the first time I've read something like this by a guy,usually its girls saying this type of stuff. It was very awesome to read!! :)

PurpleMist. said...

So true. You don't have to be perfect to be good enough :)

Ahmer Qureshi said...

Love the idea bro :)

Smokey_Cat said...

nice post! :)

and I love this song!

cricketfreak said...

Awesome post, my sentiments exactly :) I'm new to blogger, follow me?

chocolatemilk said...

@Furva: Haha I'm glad it made you feel good =] Thanks!

@Shrutilaya: Haaha! Ikr? Awesome song.

@Red Handed: Im glad it made you happy! :D HAHAHA!
Thanks. :)

@AZ: Thanks so much! <3

@Purplemist: Yess :D

@Ahmer: Thanks man!

@Smokey_Cat: Haha thanks so much!

@Cricketfreak: Haha thank you!

Peachyyy said...

This fellow blogger thinks shes awesome. Haaaaaah. :p

aaishah said...

True! Tearing yourself down does nothing but crushes your self-esteem. If you wanna fix things, go out there and grab it with both hands. I occasionally catch myself saying 'I'm not confident enough' but that ended when I reminded myself about everything I have accomplished and it made me feel better about myself :]God has put a little of His awesomeness in everyone and you'd be insulting Him if you insult yourself like this or let others crush your self-esteem.

Don't be a drag, just be a queen. Or a king. ;)

aaishah said...


Anas Shafqat said...

Loved. this. post.
Don't have anything more left to say xD

Furree Katt said...

i felt all warm and fuzzy and nice after reading this post :D
but yeah, i do know the feeling of not being good enough.
you're absolutely right, nobody is perfect! everyone needs to embrace that fact. and if they are truly unhappy with their flaws, they need to work on them to be satisfied with themselves, and not for anyone else.
i LOOOVVEEEE Born This Way! ♥ it truly gives an excellent message. (though i did like Lady Gaga's 'Alejandro' phase as well lololol)
i totally love the placement of LOLcat picture.
you should totally right for a magazine, you know? something like a Cool Advice Guy B)

sorry it took so long to comment!

chocolatemilk said...

@ Peachy: EXCELLENT! Then my post did well :)

@Aaishah: Haha yeah exactly! I'd like the King bit :) HAHAHA, I love those fishes :P

@Furree: Haha really? Yay :D
Hmm yeah, I guess everyone does. BUT THAT FEELING DOES NOT EXIST! :D
Haha, I was drowned in rock during the Alejandro phase.
Hahha awww thats so sweet. THANKS :D
No problemm! <3

ateeq mughal said...

This post makes me think of

Vice Versa said...

awesomeness. you rock :)
and i love the cat picture :D

Guy From Karachi said...

@Ateeq: Haha yeah it IS sort if like that

@Vice Versa: Thanks :D